HOW DO YOU AVOID TO LOVE?
hello and hi to me (for I am the one who religiously read my own blog), and then, to everybody…a very good freakin’ cold morning to all of us here from the southern part of Russia..
anyway it took me some time alright to start writing. not that I dont have anything to spurt out here ( i have lots…like lots of them), but I just havent got either the time, the effort, or the mood ..
speaking of which…I havent quite figure out in what mood i am right now..
anyway, enough ranting… I had to ask u all dear readers out there about a question I just found out, which really have no impeccably correct answer….so, rather than depending on contextual fact, I decide to have the answer of this question by consensus…
"HOW DO YOU AVOID TO LOVE?"
and while u typing your response to this question..please, uh pur-lease do not ask me whether the question have anything to do with me 
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and of course, dont limit yourselves about love between a guy and a girl (that is so typical)..I believe all of us can think outside of the box..( u know,
the box")
anyway, gtg now..I need to attent the freakin’ly borin’ Infection Class…
xoxo
October 30th, 2007 at 1:12 pm
salam..
just passing by..then i saw the BIG question here..
HOW TO AVOID TO LOVE??
As for me,why would a person trying to avoid the special feeling of being a human being if it is the love between a person to his/her Creator, family, friends, teachers..even cute little animals…BUT when it comes to the question HOW TO AVOID TO LOVE BETWEEN A GUY N A GURL..then we have a topic here, even it has becoming the biggest n serious topic..
Love..it is something that we can’t hear, see but we can only feel it..we never could ever see it is coming..as we start to realize..LOVE is already there..situated deep in the place where people called as HEART!! (then there will not be phrase “love is bind”)..
It is hard to tell your feelings not to fall in love with someone as it is the nature of human being created by Allah to have interest to the opposite sex (although can’t doubt gay n lesbian exist..a’uzubillah..), but we as a normal human who believe Allah as The Mighty Creator & stick still in His true religion..Islam, we have to believe in Qada’ & Qadar..
To me what we can do..only by praying to Him that the love that’s going to exist in our heart will be the one..& that person would be able to take care of ourself, who loves us, be there..& would be able to guide us through the journey what we called as LIFE in here & after life..
Love has it’s hurt & pain..but yet it also has the beautiful part..the part where a person will forget about the suffer..
Don’t blame the love..why to blame..instead cherish it as u have been given chance to feel it..as people say true love comes once..
but then as a muslims..
we should love other people not as much we as we would love HIM..The main love is toward HIM..
wasalam
November 4th, 2007 at 10:36 am
yada yada yada.
you want to avoid it? easy enough.
what’s the opposite of love?
hate. so thats your answer on how to avoid the love.
in big picture, hate can brings war. hate can creates crime (rings any bells of parents murdered by children?). hate can make us avoid the people we want to.
so, outside the box, hate is your answer.
breed it, and you’ll avoid love.
November 5th, 2007 at 4:07 pm
agree with the first comment.
just want to add, in the context of the typical love, i’ll give an analogy to make things much easier to understand. i love my stamp collections (bear with the bad examples :p). but as time goes by, i realise that there was something that is much3x more precious and worth giving attention to. and this thing will easily makes you forgot your stamp collection. wow. what in the world is that?(imagine before u encounter the precious, the stamp collections was the best ever thing in ur life lah.huhu)
obvious answer right?
thats the Love from the Mighty Creator Allah SWT…
now that will impose another question,
How do we find this love? i guess the answer is to just keep trying. As the Prophet says, ‘Allah will not get tired till you get bored and tired’.
…and keep praying for His Love
p/s: balik malaysia tak winter ni?
November 6th, 2007 at 10:38 am
Guys!! how could u not love Rosso
one very sharp answer I love it!!
p/s: x blk la
…cuti seminggu..anyway gonna go to france jumpa zam kot..
November 18th, 2007 at 8:56 am
you can’t.
the heart doesn’t have a kill switch.